Highschool Relationships Are Overrated?!

Highschool relationships. Oh, how we loved them! 

Not having a crush in high school was considered the weirdest thing ever because everyone is on their highest level of hormones. When you look around the corridors, you'll easily identify couples. They're either holding hands or doing something coupley. HS in real life is nothing like in movies and books, you don't find the love of your life there usually. The bad boy doesn't fall for the nerd and seriously who even came up with this idea, there are no bad boys for god sake. 

Highschool Relationships are so overrated that you'll feel like you need to have a boyfriend/girlfriend or else you didn't really live during high school. But no, it's not like that. You're here to gain education and not to find an ultimate soulmate. Don't stress yourself over trying to impress someone and getting them to date you cause trust me eventually Y'all will break up and it won't matter to you much in near future. Don't let this break your confidence. I am not saying dating in high school is a waste of time (it usually is ) I know many people who ended up marrying their high school crush but this is in the rare cases. 

Sometimes when all your friends are dating you feel left out.You'll even start to think there's something wrong with you. But I want you to know that you're completely normal and that it's okay to be single. You're saving yourselves from so much drama. 

Focus on the other things like your friendships, family, going out with friends and your grades too because when you'll look back these are things which you'll remember and smile about and not about that boy who rejected you. 

By high school relationships, I'm not only referring to dating but friendships too!

Friends are the most essential part of your high school life. The type of friends you have will affect your high school life and your life after high school immensely. Choose your friends wisely. It's better to be friendless than hanging out with wrong ones. They'll just lead you to your downfall. Your friends will play a very important role in your high school life. But it's you who will decide if you want them to or not. If you're hanging out with a crowd that you don't want to but have to for some reason it's okay just don't lose yourself . Have control over yourself and say no to something you don't wanna do. 

If you don't have any friends then go approach someone and ask them if they'd like to be your friend. Maybe turns out they might be needing a friend too. Don't be shy and wait for someone to approach you cause the other person may be waiting for same. Who knows you both might end up being best friends. Don't be afraid to make the first move.

Remember don't let anything bring you down, learn to make the first move, choose your friends wisely and do what you feel is right.

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